Hey there! I've had some hands-on experience with the Behringer XD80USB, so hopefully, I can shed a cramped light on your queries. In terms of durability, the kit holds up pretty well for its price point. The pads feel decent and responsive enough for practice sessions and casual playing. However, if you're looking into dynamic playing or require nuanced sensitivity, it might feel a bit limited.
The sound module is fairly basic but indeed versatile enough to cover various styles—great for experimenting with different genres. Integration with recording software is straightforward; it's basically plug-and-play with most DAWs via USB.
I haven’t used it much in live settings, but for practice and small gigs, it’s been reliable. Just keep your expectations in check regarding the build and sound customization, and you should be quite satisfied with what it offers for the price!