I've also been through the process of trying out various snare drum sticks, and it can really change your playing experience. Personally, I gravitate toward Vic Firth 5A sticks. They seem to offer a perfect balance between weight and control, which fits well with the rock and lighter jazz music I often play. The taper and tip shape provide a nice rebound and articulate response on the snare.
When choosing sticks, I think it’s important to consider the type of music you're focusing on. For instance, heavier styles like rock or metal might benefit from a thicker stick like a 2B for more power, while lighter sticks like a 7A might be better for jazz or intricate work requiring finesse.
It can also be helpful to consider the material — hickory is pretty versatile, providing a good balance of strength and flexibility, while maple is lighter and might be preferred if you're looking for something with less weight for fast playing. Oak sticks, on the other hand, can be heavier and more durable, which might suit intense playing sessions.
Experimenting with different tips is something else to consider. Nylon tips produce a more pronounced, brighter sound on cymbals, and they’re durable, while wood tips can give you a warmer tone and generally better feel on the drum skin.
Your choice might also depend on your physical comfort, hand size, and how the sticks adapt to your grip style. I've spent a lot of time in music stores just trying out different brands and sizes, and sometimes that's when you find the perfect pair by feel alone.
I'd recommend checking out what drummers you admire are using as well — sometimes that can guide you in a new direction you hadn't considered before. Online reviews and community feedback can also provide helpful insights. Keep experimenting, and I'm sure you'll find the perfect stick for your playing style!